This meeting is to set boundaries in place to ensure we can coparent & work together, nothing more, If we divorce I would still like to have an amicable R whilst things progress & hopefully in the future.
Thats great, prepare everything written down in a paper and stick to that no matter what he says or try, and everytime he "tries" to talk you out of the conversation, remember him : ok lets get back to this matters that concerns our kids, I dont want to talk about us.
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.