Happy Mother's Day to you too Bright!! I am so happy to hear about your job - it sounds like you had a great first week.
I am also glad you found an ally in your GF. It can be so hard to constantly feel alone in the real world in your stand.
Let us know how it goes with the drums. It does seem more prudent to be around when he comes to get them. You can do this :-)
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home