This portion of DBing is proving to be difficult for me.
It is going to be...however it will not last forever.
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It is very hard for me to debate or defend myself without being considered a "bully". That word is being thrown around by her, and all of her cronies, like it was my middle name. It's discouraging.
Why are you upset IF your ex calls you a bully?
What if I called you a bully?
Would you be upset at me?
If so, why?
Psst...these are loaded questions so think long and hard about the answer.
To answer your question, I wouldn't be the slightest bit upset if you called me a bully. However, if you went on a public social forum and started spreading the word to hundreds of other people, I would eventually be pretty irritated. With that said, I totally get what you're saying and you're right. I need to just shut it off and not even acknowledge that it is happening. Thanks, Eric
