If after the overnight rule you still want to address this, I say do it. It IS inappropriate.
I know it probably won't change things, but if I'm not mistaken, this is about your feelings in regards to something that has to do with the kids. I say go for it, if only to make you feel like you're standing up,for yourself.
Happy Mother's Day!
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."