That's what a lawyers job is, to protect your rights. They want to make sure you are protected and get whats best for you. The lawyer is most likely not concerned with you saving your marriage, that is not their job. I guess you have to decide for yourself how quickly to proceed. Your son will always be a part of your life even if your W is not.
This crap is not fun, especially if you still love and want to be with your W. You are probably worried about pissing her off and ruining any chance of getting her back by going forward with the lawyer. I suppose you need to make the call on how to proceed.
Good for you on letting W know that you know about the A. It kind of clears the air a little bit when you no longer have to live a lie around her.
separated since 9/01/13 M-31 W-36 D-4 Move back home 12/26/13 3 months of tough times Finally in a happy M
