Can you tell your H your thoughts on moving this summer & ask him to continue with the work that needs doing? I was in a similar position and got fed up of waiting around for H to do the work that was needed so I took charge & got it sorted myself (family helped) and put our house on the market - it felt good to have control & to be taking charge of my life again, it's scary but also very fulfilling!

Now I just need the house to sell so I can start looking for a new home for me & the kids, if H ends up with us then that's a bonus but right now I'm planning our future for just me & the kids.


Divorce Final: Oct 2014

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