Hi Read your question about the coach. I tnink she helps me. She keeps me feeling positive tnough if you read my current posts you would wonder but it is just extra tough at the moment forme.. I see a consellor and also write on another forum. Tney both say your marriage is over he has no interest in the marriage, accept, look after you etc.. all done and said with my interests at heart. The coach helps me see that it is not quite so black and white that he is conflicted..that there are some positive interactions and how to avoid the negative ones..
I need to hear the message of hope at the moment. I need to hear it might be ok some days I wonder will it or does it make it all, harder..but he even says most of the marriage was good! Won't discuss it at all ..but says that sort of thing when not stressed..
I guess it is your perspective and what you need.. seems like most people advise move on and give up...I am not there yet.. Our timelines are similar maybe you are not there yet either..
