I saw you wondering back quite a few posts ago if you pushed you W into MLC...I reviewed her threads and posts, and...nope. I've been dealing with a MLC W for 5 years or so (I figured out what was happening Nov 2011)...I can pretty much guarantee you she is not MLC, so don't chase down that tunnel, cuz there aint' no cheese at the end there ... m'kay?
She is a straight up WAW, she tried for years and years, then whatever it is that you said to her during your Valentine's Day fight that the kids heard, snapped something inside her... re-read the DR chapter on the WAW... and what did you say to her?
Thing is, YOUR path is the same whether MLC or WAS...
Listen to her, truly listen. Give her space. RESPECT HER!!! BACK OFF!!
So after looking at her posts again, and taking into consideration the 3 sides of any story, hers, yours, and the truth...I'm going ask you some different questions I'd like you to think about and answer, here...
1. What kind of person would you say your Mom is? 2. How did/does your Dad treat your Mom? 3. How does your Dad treat your step-Mom? 4. How does your step-Dad treat your Mom? 5. I saw your posted that you believe your W to be really intelligent, yet, she reported different behavior and words...I would like to hear your side.
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
