hope456 - accepting my new reality

[Upwards]

I'm kind and intelligent and caring and attractive and loyal and so many other good things.

^^^ THIS is the truth, this is who you are, if people around you dont see or value that then that is THEIR issue and not yours - remember your worth!

But I'm still not good enough for him to TRY to fix our marriage.

I promise you it isnt about you, its about HIM and how he feels about himself. What he's done is a reflection on him and the type of person he is right now, please try to get out of the mindset that its personal because it really isnt.

I've made myself a promise to try to focus on at least one positive thing every time I post.

Fantastic idea, its so easy to become consumed in the negatives when we're having a difficult time in life but there is always a positive in every situation - the positive for me right now is that although i've lost my relationship, i've found myself and that really is priceless