Thanks sandi2. This is very helpful. I have felt uneasy being evasive with her mom when she has sent a couple of probing questions my way.

Great advice on the other threads you have been giving which I am applying to my situation.

M:36 W:34
T:9,M:4
Me,WAH:7/2011
My apology:12/2012
Her,WAW:01/2013
ILYBINILWY:4/2013
W's EA:5/2013
Sep:9/2013
2nd EA signs:03/2014