Originally Posted By: melissag
It kind of makes me want to slap him in the face, or give him a swirly in the toilet.
I hope he does figure this stuff out and change his mind.


Oh Melissa, I know that feeling. A swirly in the toilet sounds like the perfect solution lol. And yes, I keep telling myself that no matter what happens we have to learners how to communicate because we share children. And why not learn it in a way that will save our marriage not end it. But now I realize there is nothing I can do to make him see that so I will just go about my own business trying to get my life back to a happy place even if it is no longer the one I wanted.


40s 2teens M14Y
BD-10/12/13 rec-1/14
BD2-5/14 rec2-9/14
EA disc-10/14 4/15-BD 3 and triangulation ensues
Served with D6/15 MS forced to leave7/15
D agreement signed 8/16 final 5/17