Hey Stumps - has she continued to talk about D or move forward with filing or anything?
No, she's made almost no mention of anything in that regard... In fact the only mention of our sitch at all that she's made, that I can think of off the top of my head, was her saying that some of her friend's think it's weird that she and I are going out together and hanging out so much and enjoying each other's company even though we're splitting up. She said that about a week or two ago. Prior to that, she had checked in a couple of times to see if I thought that she had changed her mind because we were getting along so well (I told her no, I didn't think that she had changed her mind), but it's been a few weeks since she's done even that.
She hasn't talked about filing, or when she's going to move out, or any of the other logistics/nuts and bolts of separating/divorcing at all really... That's why I was a little caught off guard when my FIL said she had been down there talking to him about his "house rules". I took it as a wake up call that no matter how well things seemed to be going between us, I need to assume that until she explicitly states otherwise, her mind is still made up.
H: 43 W: 37 M: 11 years T: 12 years S: 11 D: 8 ILYBINILWY, "I want to move out" and "I want a divorce": 3/23/14 MC started: 9/22/14 Affair and past infidelity discovered: 9/26/14 Piecing: 10/20/14
