If OM and his W is separated, what good would it do in telling his W? It would simply justify the separation. It wouldn't make your W desire to reconcile the M.
Is this car considered her property? I mean, does she pay for the upkeep or does that come out of the joint account? This is why men need to get the finances separated when his W walks out. She expects him to continue footing her expenses. Some of these things are a tough call. What do you feel is right? Can you pay the bill, or are you reacting emotionally?
It may be something that merits a call to your lawyer, but IDK. Since this is not a legal S, I don't how expenses are determined when S and who pays for what. But I think it would be in your best interest to find out.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
