Reach out or stay dark?

[Anders]

I have been reading a lot of the nuggets of wisdom in the newcomers section which has been very inspiring adn h. Also listening to a lot of Wayne Dyer's talks which have given me a good sense of perspective on my fears and allowed me to calm my current level of anxiety.

Her mum is visiting her in a few days time and will know that something is up between us. She thinks we are living in the same city but it has been a month and a half since we were last together and spoke.

Very uncertain about how to respond as most of the nuggets of wisdom recommend not involving family.