As a short re-cap... Been seeing lots of what seems like positive movement on W's part, at least as far as her starting to own some of her role in our sitch (acknowledges her codependency and how it effects her relationships).
Have also been having some really good "dates" with W (have gone out the past couple of Wednesdays and at the end of our last night out she was already lining up a night out for next week). Have been having some really good times hanging out at home together too. In between I've been keeping up the 180s and GAL.
However... as far as I know W is still planning on moving in with her parents (FIL has mentioned W has been "bargaining" with him over his house rules which are apparently more restrictive than mine). Also have noticed W is inconsistently wearing her wedding ring. Not sure if there's something to that or not.
Overall though, we are communicating much more effectively than in recent times. That's a positive no matter what. Been trying to decide if I should tell W I'm going to check out apartments in a town a couple of hours away. She doesn't seem to like the idea of me moving so far away post-separation.
H: 43 W: 37 M: 11 years T: 12 years S: 11 D: 8 ILYBINILWY, "I want to move out" and "I want a divorce": 3/23/14 MC started: 9/22/14 Affair and past infidelity discovered: 9/26/14 Piecing: 10/20/14
