Typing now as I just put the kidlet back to bed but have a full day.
Initially, I had told him I was going out of town for mother's day with my little one. Hes always been the type to do what I do, if nothing other than to make himself look like he has plans, friends etc. NPD coming out on that one. Anyhow, I just said "ok." I didnt ask where he was going, with who, nada. I just made plans to go stay in a swanky condo (it belong to my L who happens to be a good friend of mine and is out of town this weekend.) Place we are going has a pool, its right across the street from a big popular lake with a walking trail, its in a fun city where I am sure kidlet and I can find something to do; and its where my grandmother lives, ao we will definitely visit her.
That said I had wanted to go to the store this morning and asked H if he could watch kidlet for an hour before I went just to make it easier. He had said "maybe" as he was leaving town as well. I had also told H a friend of mine (50+ year old military member who is like a dad to me and grandfather to my kid) was coming over to check on me. He knows what was going on so came over with beer and we ordered chinese food. H drove by, saw vehicles here and chickened out. My friend isnt the type to stir the pot - he thinks H is an idiot but wouldn't say it to his face. However, H just said he wanted to "give me privacy in my own home." I wanted to ask why he still lives here if that were the case but I did not. All I replied with was "ok, thanks."
My friend left, and H was texting me about a guy who brought in a very young kid to the movie. I didnt reply. He had also sent me a text about a legally blind pole vaulter earlier since th at was my sport in high school and college. Friend came over so I didnt reply right away and then forgot. I went to bed and woke up with the baby to 2 texts from him asking if I was still awake and then saying he would watch the kiddo in the morning. I had already made arrangements to bring her with me part of the time, then have a girl who I am also in the military with come sit with her while I do a couple of things before the two of us left for said condo. I told him thanks, but I had secured child care.
H is now mad, but its sh** or get off the pot with babysitting. I asked him first, he didnt reply until 11PM, so I made my own arrangements.
He did pay me support today as agreed without a fight. I was expecting him to blow up at me as he had when previously talking about it.
Me- 29 H - 36 T - 5y M - 2y D - 11 months BD#1 June 2013 BD#2 H files 10/28/13 Retrouvaille Nov 13 BD #3 H Files 2nd time 4/22/14 Fires L 7 days later. No court dates set Supposedly he's moving out?
