Georgia and takevows-

Thanks for the response. H is now lying 90% of the time, even about dumb things. I don't know if he is so caught up or thinks I am stupid, but the lies are bad. Even my young child has caught him in some, and called him on it.

Take - holy crap, talk about a double whammy. I am so sorry. Your H is an idiot! Looking up "affairing down" sounds interesting just from the name of it. I will have to look it up. How long has your H been with OW? I am stronger than I was 6 months ago, but it is hard with him in the house. Not sure if that is better or to have him out. At least this way things are still somewhat normal for the kids.

I am not sure of the plans for the weekend, it is weather pending, If it is nice we will ride bikes and maybe go to a park. I am sure that I will get to plan my whole Mother's day as I doubt H has done one single thing for me. I will probably take the kids all day and go play - and he can go f**k himself for the day. ha ha!

what are your plans?