My counselor thinks she has strong borderline traits.
She says my ex is selfish, immature, doesn't take responsibility of any of her actions/emotions, has no self worth or respect(dating right away), she likes to grasp at me when im pulling away, makes rash decisions, has no moral compass to guide her etc. etc.
And this isn't an assessment of just one visit. I've seen my counselor for 2 years and she's met my ex and she's talked with our couples counselor who counseled us for close to 5 months or so.
She basically said what I've been saying; that I have to treat her like an addict. My ex is addicted to the drama that she gets from me. I'm her scapegoat for all her problems and as long as I keep enabling that she will continue to dump her sh*t on me. My ex has her lenses on again where I'm the cause of her unhappiness.
Me-35 Com law-28 S-3 T-6 yrs w/14 mnth bu 1st bu- 2/2012 Rec-4/2013 2nd bu-10/2013 IC-2 yrs(anger issues) MC- 5 mnths-fail OM~1/1/14 OM dumped 6/4/14 New OM ~10/4/14
