He's also telling me I cannot "move on" and meet other people until the D is final. My L laughed and said while it's probably not a good idea, he can pound sand as this is a no fault state, and adultery doesn't mean I am a bad mom. I wouldn't do it, but the fact he is still trying to control my life after filing for a D is more than mildly infuriating me.
He wanted to ride the jointly owned motorcycle tomorrow. The last time he filed he took it and hid it. So now I have the title and keys. I told him if he was willing to put a GPS tracking box of some sort on it and take out full coverage - he was more than welcome to ride it until it was sold. If not then I wasn't comfortable with him taking it. He didn't like my answer and tried to guilt me by saying "this is why we are getting a D" but I didn't bite. I just said ok and walked away. If he hadn't filed, he could ride it any time he wanted and there would still be full coverage on it. As it stands, he filed and I am afraid he will take it. Fair as far as what I did? I dont know. But I know I have to protect myself as well.
Kinda feels good to stand up for myself for once.
Me- 29 H - 36 T - 5y M - 2y D - 11 months BD#1 June 2013 BD#2 H files 10/28/13 Retrouvaille Nov 13 BD #3 H Files 2nd time 4/22/14 Fires L 7 days later. No court dates set Supposedly he's moving out?
