I'd be surprised if the boss lies under oath. He's going to have to explain what the word "bonus" means and it doesn't sound like it's regular pay or overtime.
Oh, well...we shall see who lies under oath. I would dearly love to be a fly on that wall when this happens.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
At the hotel with D and S. Met S's coach and his wife and it was fun to kick back with adults while the kid's splashed in the pool. We sat in the hot tub and can't believe how good the jets felt on my back. It was tight as a drum. I feel like a limp noodle now.
WH
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"
Still recouping from my mini vaca with the kids. We had a great time. Tired, but we loved every minute of it. S said "mom, I am glad we were with you for this tournament. I wouldn't have had as much fun if we were with dad". That makes me happy and sad all at the same time.
The hearing for H's contempt motion (that he filed) isn't until the end of May. The hearing for the motion I filed is at the end of May. A month difference. I was hoping things would be settled by then. I told my attorney this was depressing. He told me to keep my chin up. Ugh.
In other news, H is traveling out of the state for work (I think it's out of state, not out of the country). He asked me to switch up some days so I get the kids all week. I love it! Of course, I will have to give up my Sunday and Monday night, but this is the first time in well over a week that I will take the kids to school for all five days! YAY! I'll take it where I can get it.
My garden is getting overrun again. We have had TONS of rain and the lily of the valley is growing like mad, but something seems to be nibbling on it. I trimmed back my evergreens but it looks like I need to trim them again if it ever dries up! There is lily of the valley growing within the evergreens that I need to clear out. It seems to be everywhere. I have some viney weed creeping through as well. I got some weed killer and killed a portion of it, so just need to get to the rest of it. I am amazed about how much I love doing it. I love pulling weeds. Good release of frustration!!!!
I'm getting there!
WH
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"
"The hearing for H's contempt motion (that he filed) isn't until the end of May. The hearing for the motion I filed is at the end of May. A month difference. I was hoping things would be settled by then. I told my attorney this was depressing. He told me to keep my chin up. Ugh."
Ooops... I meant to say the haring for the motion H filed is at the end of JUNE, not May. I would like to spend my summer not worrying about H's stupid antics!!
WH
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"
My attorney bills keep creeping up. I tried to get a loan to help pay for them, but no dice. My debt to income ratio is too high because they can't include H's income since we are separated but the debt is still in my name so I am screwed. I knew this was the case but I was hoping there was something someone could do.
So I need to get another job or something to come up with this money. I have tried selling some stuff online. No takers. None, zero, zip, nada. I am hoping my attorney will continue to work with me.
In the meantime, H keeps doing what he can to increase my attorney bill. Anything to dig the knife in a little deeper.
I feel sick.
WH
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"
My attorney bills keep creeping up. I tried to get a loan to help pay for them, but no dice. My debt to income ratio is too high because they can't include H's income since we are separated but the debt is still in my name so I am screwed. I knew this was the case but I was hoping there was something someone could do.
So I need to get another job or something to come up with this money. I have tried selling some stuff online. No takers. None, zero, zip, nada. I am hoping my attorney will continue to work with me.
In the meantime, H keeps doing what he can to increase my attorney bill. Anything to dig the knife in a little deeper.
I feel sick.
WH
Can you manage your attorney a little better? I haven't read through your entire sitch, so I don't know all the details. I told my attorney not to respond to things unless it will hurt me in court. ie: H's L wants to call him and "talk about things." I told him to sit on his hands and unless they file something, he knows my position and to respond accordingly when something is FILED IN COURT. If it's not filed, and the L's are just yammering together, it's costing you $$ you do not have.
How can your H raise your attorney's bills? I guess I don't understand? Frivolous motions?
Just to reiterate: Tell your attorney not to talk to them unless it's DIRE. That' 15 minutes here and there adds up.
Me- 29 H - 36 T - 5y M - 2y D - 11 months BD#1 June 2013 BD#2 H files 10/28/13 Retrouvaille Nov 13 BD #3 H Files 2nd time 4/22/14 Fires L 7 days later. No court dates set Supposedly he's moving out?
Frivolous Motions out the ying yang. With the recent, extra bonus of contempt charges to try to offset the contempt charges Wishing's H deserved for hiding his bonus monies. Pretty much an MLC mocking of the judicial system on her H's part.
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
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