Before I say anything else, I say YES GET A DB COACH!
Without my DB coach, I am 100% I would be divorced...
so now, I'll go back to reading the rest of the thread.
But no, I don't think it's too late. I have 2 family members who divorced and remarried their exes. The cost of the coaching is a lot less than a divorce and even if they don't help you save the m, they'll save you heartache.
(What is money for, if not that?)
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016