Thanks for the reply. I keep running circles like dog chasing tail. I think what is hard is h says they are just friends, but he is lying. They have ea and pa, and he means it when he says he wants a divorce. I don't know why he is still in the house. There is no physical contact, and some of our friends believe the pity party. They see he us acting strangely, but feel bad for him. Ugh!!; he is the one breaking our vows. My friends tell me there is no use in thinking he will come back. Our kids are young, and it would hurt them. I am standing for now BC I don't give up.
