afraid I have waited too long #3

[Nettles]

"Is it still possible to R after W has filed D papers?"

There are people on here who R after D is final. Being served D papers isn't the end. In fact, it can help WAS really examine what life will be like without LBS.

"Or do I just have to go with flow be as amicable as possible and allow the D to proceed and hope maybe someday W decides she may have made a mistake?"

Not sure what your state is like, but in mine, one S can't stop a D. Delay it yes, but not stop. If you want to reinforce W's thoughts on why the D, go ahead and try. But you aren't "going with flow", your DBing, right? That includes how you handle D process.