Hey GG! Good to hear from you. You sound well and on solid ground with your life! If you are like me it was at times a rocky journey, but once you finally get over the past and to the other side you realize just how happy you are and wonder what the heck took me so long!

More power to your ex. I for one cannot imagine starting the kid thing over again. I'm less than 3 short years away from empty nester status. I love my kids and will miss having them around on an almost daily basis, but I also appreciate "my time" and am much more ready for the next phase of my life than I would be ready to welcome a new born into this world (unless of course it's a grand child - then bring it on!)

Best to you!
BA