My position receives a bonus. During the back and forth over the terms of the decree sharing a portion of it disappeared. My L noted it and informed me he was not going to bring it up at the next meeting. So we waited for X and her L to notice and amend the agreement. They never did. I did a little happy dance.
It comes in handy and I have used it, most recently to purchase a modest outdoor play set for our Grand Daughter. I no longer have feelings associated with it. It just is.
We feel what we feel at the time. As time moves on and we do with it, our feelings change. We have spent so much energy and time on self examination that it becomes natural for us to sometimes question why we feel the way we do. I think we eventually will arrive at a point where this ceases. What happens after? IDK and I am looking forward to it.
BITS Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55 D 30 S 27
You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill