Pulling this question over here from my prior thread:
Any other thoughts on friendship? Am I still at a place where I should accept some invitations to do things with my H, but not all? I really, truly do miss his company and don't want to lose him in my life.
And another question:
I need to talk to my H about the parenting schedule we have. My D7 doesn't like it. She's expressed confusion over it. I think that H and I need to sit down and talk about what is best for her. I've been thining about what I think might work better, but I don't want to close my mind to any suggestions that he might have (180 opportunity here). I'm thinking of sending him a text that says, "H, I'd like for us to set aside some time to talk about the parenting schedule going forward since D7 has expressed some concerns. Maybe Sunday evening?" Any thoughts on that? If I allow myself to mindread, I think he'll probably jump to the conclusion that I'm going to say that I don't want to do 50/50, which is not my intention. I want to have a conversation about what D7 has said and brainstorm with him about possible alternatives. I do think that he also wants what is best for her, but we have different ideas of what that is.
And another:
Do you think it will still be useful for me to get a DB coach? I'm not sure if he's too far gone that it couldn't make a difference.
