Mach,
When my character is attacked, when I am called sexist and an "ogre" I don't like it. Tirate? Umm, really?

Are you asking if my wife complained that I'm sexist or condescending or use "backhanded" comments? If so, no. If she had I would have had to look at my behavior since she actually would know me well enough that I would have thought maybe I need to. When someone who knows nothing about me does, than others start joining in, I have every right to respond.

If you're asking if she complained that I wouldn't just allow someone to attack my character and just let them, then no, in fact she would hate my being a doormat.

You want to know what she complained about? Not once did she say I mistreated her or went on tirates. In fact she said I treated her "too well" when she didn't deserve it. That I spent too much time with my kids and at home. I didn't go out and hang with my friends often enough. I should have just done things like go on vacation and "made" her go instead of just not going when she refused.

So no complaints about tirates, sexism, being condescending or answering personal attacks.