I'm sorry you are here. Having a baby can be stressful in itself so congratulations on your little one. I have not read your previous threads.
I feel very stringy about this. When we make decisions, we have to own all that goes along with them. I'm sure we've all made some we didn't like ( I know I have)the all that goes along with them piece. Nevertheless, actions have consequences. This situation is no different. If your h lives at home, he has to pay bills. End of story.
You owe him no discussion of what you are doing. I understand you are afraid to make him mad but you cannot control how he reacts or how he feels. And besides, is he "happy" right now? No. He will probably be angry regardless of what you do. And you cannot control him. Only you.
So start GALing. Forget what he says about meet ups being single groups. That's his opinion and he's moving out. Enjoy your baby. Be pleasant and cordial and DO NOT contact him unless it's necessity. Live your life and focus on being happy. I know it's difficult and you can do it.
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
