Sorry above post should say also had insurance deducted from my pay.
Re:earlier posts . I wish our marriage could go back to the "good old days" but I know that isn't possible. What I want and think that I can reasonably expect is a new foundation for our marriage ,stripped of lies and deceit. Built on a new foundation.
This is something I can commit to but it isn't anything I can do without W's cooperation.
I have never been so powerless about anything that mattered so much in my life.


Me 49 stunned and lost
W 47 ,stunning and my world
S 15,better than anyone could ask for
T 29 yrs ,M 18.
B 4-3-2014 move on separately.4-18-2014- "doesn't want to be M"
5-8-14 " I'm filing for divorce"