I hear you, GM (and Rick) - but I can't help but wonder why she is failing to connect the dots between what is happening to her NOW and her decision to file for D. I mean, there is a 100% correlation between the two things - yet somehow, this is my fault?? When tires herself out punching me and eventually runs out of steam will she slump into her corner and accept reality and responsibility?? Lord knows that's what I've had to do.