Saw a lawyer today and they cautioned me against my agreement to let W have S for the summer. She could take him and file afterwards muddying the water for who gets him. She had told me she would leave him living with me but I'm concerned she will change her mind. They suggest I file now to protect my S living with me. I don't trust my W, its true. Her life keeps changing and her decision are terrible at this time. Thoughts?
I think if you trust yourself that you picked a good lawyer (I assume this is a good family law atty, preferably one who specializes in "men's right" and paternal custody issues?) then I would listen to your attorney.
