Thank you Starsky. I've wanted to say something since I found out. At first I figured I needed to cool down cause I was pretty out of sorts about it and cold for a couple days I think. Been less than a week since I knew but I will feel easier without the secret anyways and able to proceed.
Saw a lawyer today and they cautioned me against my agreement to let W have S for the summer. She could take him and file afterwards muddying the water for who gets him. She had told me she would leave him living with me but I'm concerned she will change her mind. They suggest I file now to protect my S living with me. I don't trust my W, its true. Her life keeps changing and her decision are terrible at this time. Thoughts?
M: 43 W: 43 Married 6 yrs. T: 7 yrs. Son 20, 18, 17, 15 yrs. (w/ Autism), 12, 10