Your right HS. Its time I stopped letting my emotions crumple me into a crying kid in a corner and just be an adult about it. I've let this devestate me for too long and tried to treat her with loving kid gloves too often. Just ask for a truthful answer and ask, right. No need to get into how I know or how it makes me feel.

Okay, honestly though I have to ask then. What is it the other experts on the site are meaning then when they say confronting your S about their A doesn't help? I mean I obviously must have been reading that wrong or is it just a difference of how others approach it?


M: 43 W: 43
Married 6 yrs.
T: 7 yrs.
Son 20, 18, 17, 15 yrs. (w/ Autism), 12, 10