Wonka,

Thanks for the words of support. Didn't think we would be at this spot quite yet. Back in February I personally prepared myself to not have much of any contact until late July (when she returns with the kids from Spain).

I need to reread the piecing parts of DB, but it is nice to see that the W is putting work into us already. I fully expected me to have to "prove" myself to her through being the only doing work for the first month or more, almost as a test. I would have been good with this but she has already planned us a date for tomorrow. Very nice to see her trying also.

I am not going to lie, it has been really exciting and fun this last two weeks. We fell into roll playing as being single with kids and dating someone new. We did this naturally, but it is fun to say thing like "her children are really rude and mine are nothing but angels." She will say things like "I don't think I could date, let alone marry, someone with kids who take forever to put to bed." Things like this are light hearted flirting that we needed while M.


M:34 XW:34
Together: 10y
Living: 9y
Married: 7y
Son:6 Son:4
Separated: 12/28/13
Piecing: 5/2/14
Separated 2nd: 10/16/14
W filed, but pulled it: 11/5/14
papers served: 1/27/15
D final: 3/6/15