Friday I am going out with the W. Friend did not seem open to doing much and I think his girlfriend might be doing something for him. I am taking him out tonight for some food and drinks.

Spent Tuesday and Wednesday nights together as a family.

Tuesday night we had planned two weeks ago. I made some dinner and she came over and we ate as a family. We all went together to look at a train and put the kids to sleep together. W was exhausted from her hours she is keeping with it being the end of the semester and went home around 10:00.

Wednesday she had the kids and I was going to lay low at home when she sent a text asking about pink eye medicine. It looks like our youngest son's eyes were getting red and gunky so she wanted to try to catch any pink eye before it took hold. I took it over and we played with the kids and put them to sleep. I stayed and we just enjoyed some quiet time and watched some TV. Sat close on the couch and cuddled for about the last 20 minutes.

I drove home, while it was SNOWING none the less, and she sent a follow up text "Hope you made it home safe. Thank you for everything tonight... it was nice". This is the first time she has sent a message to me after I have left and one showing concern/caring. Small step forward.

We seem to just keep going on this nice smooth slow pace that is keeping us both comfortable while we get to know each other again. I think we are both happy with the pace and she seems to be opening up more emotionally and letting her self be a little more vulnerable as she feels safer and more trusting with me.


M:34 XW:34
Together: 10y
Living: 9y
Married: 7y
Son:6 Son:4
Separated: 12/28/13
Piecing: 5/2/14
Separated 2nd: 10/16/14
W filed, but pulled it: 11/5/14
papers served: 1/27/15
D final: 3/6/15