My H didn't have a PA, but he had EA's...multiple ones.
The hatred you feel...wow. I'm glad you expressed that because I can empathize. I really disliked H. I really dislike him now for what he's doing to this marriage by filing behind my back...again. And using it as a control measure.
The only person I've ever hated in my life is his mother. However, the feelings I have towards H, even though I want to R, are eerily similar.
You've made me realize that him moving out and getting his own place gives me some space to deal with these emotions. I have been unable to control my anger the past two months. Not to the point of being physical, but to the point of being fed up and just treating him like sh**. I start anger management counseling next week.
Thank you again for sharing.
Me- 29 H - 36 T - 5y M - 2y D - 11 months BD#1 June 2013 BD#2 H files 10/28/13 Retrouvaille Nov 13 BD #3 H Files 2nd time 4/22/14 Fires L 7 days later. No court dates set Supposedly he's moving out?
