When H first left I was very forthcoming about my role and responsibilty in our sitch. I apologized and took ownership. But now, months later, I have even more insights. (Something occurred to me during our mediation meeting, and other things I've realized since our S).
We haven't talked about our R since at least mid-Feb. When, if ever, might it be appropriate to bring up the new insights I've had about what went wrong (and what I would do differently?) Maybe y'all need more details to give me an answer, but I would love some thoughts. I am so tempted to reach out.
It's so bizarre-- he is in a rush to get the home appraised so we can deal with that, and figure out financials-- and he thinks we need a mediator for that... but the parenting plan we should be able to just figure out ad hoc over email? *blink* *blink blink*. Words of wisdom appreciated...
