GB that is so funny (to me) that your H was off work so long and didn't do things, it was like we were married to the same guy. Mine was off like a year. I worked full time the entire marriage. He was off another time for 6 months I think, and after BD said that was MY fault. I hear ya on the not being mad, just thought it was helping as far as finishing the floors go. I would have done the same thing. You just take care of things - that's me too. My exH would probably say I was setting him up for failure. Sometimes he got mad if I did things and thought I was trying to one up him. That wasn't the case at all, I just like to have things done so I can sit and relax without the list of things to do hovering over me. I would say you waited plenty long to let him handle it. That's so sweet your kids gave you that! Must have made you light up! Have a great weekend GB!


Me - 42
exH - 56
Married 10.5 years
Together 17
bomb dropped 1/6/14
signed papers 2/4/14
H moved out 2/22/14
D final 4/4/14
Dropped the rope 5/17/14
2 cats, 2 dogs