Thanks everyone for the kind words and advice, alas some of it comes too late (the story of my life) The "Im filing for divorce" bomb came this morning, I'm dealing with it. Time to start looking out for me, I'll ask her to leave, her decision and see how it goes from there. I'll post more later, have to take my mom to the DMV.
Me 49 stunned and lost W 47 ,stunning and my world S 15,better than anyone could ask for T 29 yrs ,M 18. B 4-3-2014 move on separately.4-18-2014- "doesn't want to be M" 5-8-14 " I'm filing for divorce"
