GM is right Crimson, stick to the original agreement. I don't think you need to remind her you are divorced. If you stick to the agreement she will get the hint.
Would she re negotiate alimony and child support? Probably not. Put the guilt aside. You need to heal and move forward.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
