GM is right. IMHO, part of this is really being able to put your head on your pillow at night and say, "I did the best I could today and I feel good about it." None of us are perfect. However, I do think living well and being a good person who operates with integrity is something to be proud of.
In regards to the house vs retirement, I agree with kml. Look at this very closely. Don't give up the farm because it's what Smokey wants. You have to look out for your future and think about some different scenarios.
I love One Direction too. Those kids have great hair:)
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer