TL, you are always welcome to share. I love (well it makes me sad yet comforted) to read about others. I agree. I really wasn't trying to "control" everything by doing it all. I just thought it needed to get done-eventually. For example, 2 BRs in our house were the only rooms with out new flooring. The new flooring was put in by h 5 years ago and a professional "finished" about 2 years ago. Every 6 months or so I would ask h (if he wasn't working and was at home) if he could do the floors in the BRs. He said yes. At this point, he had not been working (and kids were at school or daycare) for 8 months. At the year mark, I did ask if he thought he might have time to do the floors. He said yes. It never happened. 3 months later, I had someone come in and do it. I wasn't mad or anything. I just thought I was helping since it had been over 5 years. Right after BD, H brought up the floor situation which just proved "I doubted him" and I didn't think he would "come through." I just saw it as getting something finished after 5 years.
Is anyone else ready for the weekend? I am. My kids gave me a heart that lights up when you hold it with "We Always Love You" engraved on the front last night.
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
