Oh, I am sticking to the agreement for sure. Part of her issue is that her parents are divorced (irony?) and she has to split 7 days between two houses. Additionally, her dad does not travel well for health reasons and her mom can't really afford to travel to AZ all the time - plus she works full time. See? THIS is where I want to say "these are the consequences of your actions". It seems like she wants a D without any of the negative fallout on her end. I mean, really, THIS is what happens! What was she expecting?

The sad part is, guys, that I have come so far in terms of my personal selfishness that I had in the M that I would let her take him for a MONTH if she wanted to and I would just come visit on a weekend or two. I get why that time with her fam is important to her.....but we aren't there anymore.....and it was her choice. I want to TELL her that - but I know I can't.

Crimson