so what do I do with this that I got from XW today regarding her vacation time with S this summer? She asked ME to pick the days....no way. Is she using guilt at the end here? I think I know what I am going to say....but want some insight.

Crimson

"Also, just a reminder I need the dates you do agree with for summer vacation tomorrow.
As always, I hope for more than 7 days as he sees my dad twice a year and mom maybe 3 times a year. I would be willing to give you more days in return for being flexible. As hard as it is to be away from him that long, it is also in his best interest to have family bonds with my family, and that doesn’t come with just a couple days in each household. Always hoping for the best, but know you will do whatever you decide."