Hi hoper, I agree with you on the advice about not snooping. I learned that pretty quickly too, it is just too painful and resolves nothing, changes nothing but hurt me even more. Of course we all go through that in the early stages I think where we want to snoop, find out all we can about what's going on but it really did me more harm than good so I stopped, separated out all the accounts so I could not do it even if I wanted to, then moved on as if he wasn't coming back. the imagination can really mess with your mind sometimes. take care!
Me - 42 exH - 56 Married 10.5 years Together 17 bomb dropped 1/6/14 signed papers 2/4/14 H moved out 2/22/14 D final 4/4/14 Dropped the rope 5/17/14 2 cats, 2 dogs
