So now you know she is cheating... As Mach mentioned, stop snooping. You really are only going to hurt yourself. How? If you continue to snoop...you will end up spending hours of time thinking why did she speak to him for 339 mins...why did she text him 5,000 times. It really does not matter at least not now.
You have already confronted her.
What exactly did she say?
Now that the cat is out of the bag, IMO, you are going to be on the fast track of learning...
In terms of the 90K that was moved to a separate bank account. Was that your money or hers? Watch the finances...
Protect yourself and the kids at all cost. WAS have a tendency to be self absorbed and only consider what THEY want.
You may be feeling like it is over...It ain't! You say when this ends - not her!
For now, learn to STFU (shut the f*ck up) and not respond to her. Learn the 48 hours rule...if she asks a question or emails you...do not always respond. You are emotional right now so in the state chance are you will say and do things that you may regret later.
Keep posting.
Peace, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
