Yesterday, I implemented a lot of NC. I called H once to confirm the times he was watching the kidlet today, and her schedule for the evening.
I did get a chance to send him a note about how great a salesman he was. I wished him luck at his meeting, then said I doubt he needed it as sales was his forte.
He thanks me for the compliment. He had sent a text asking me about something. I went ahead and let it ride. About an hour later, he sends me another one asking me if he was supposed to do something, but using exclamation points. I was in the shower, and replied that I did get his first text, but I was busy and was just then able to reply.
He then goes on to tell me about his day via text, and confirms the time he was going to be at "my" house. I'm not going to lie. Him calling it "my" house instead of "home" or "the" house hit me pretty bad. I just left it at "ok, I've gotta get to bed. Long day tomorrow. Have a great night."
I know he has his own place now, but not sure where he is going to get the money to furnish it. I read somewhere that 25yearsMLC said that there needed to be a smooth path paved back to the house. I'm going to make it as smooth as possible.
I have time on my side because he fired his L. I'm going to let the dust settle. We will have to file an answer to his petition, but after that, I told my friend/attorney to sit on his hands and not send anything to H (or, until it's updated online, opposing council.)
He's watching the kiddo tonight so I can go fly for my other job (won't get home until 12AM) and then the sitter is on vacation tomorrow and Monday, so he will watch her then as well. This weekend, she and I are going to friend/lawyers swanky place since he it out of town and hanging out at the pool, going for walks around the lake near his condo and seeing some friends.
The thing that I find amusing/funny, but also somewhat unfair and irritating; is that H will accept the calendar invites to watch the kidlet when he knows I have reservist duties, but will not accept the invites I sent on days I want to go out to see friends, or to a divorce support group (I'm going as it's for those separated as well as divorced) etc.
Either way, I can get someone else to watch the kiddo if need be. I just feel like offering him the opportunity to watch her first is the best way to go about it.
Me- 29 H - 36 T - 5y M - 2y D - 11 months BD#1 June 2013 BD#2 H files 10/28/13 Retrouvaille Nov 13 BD #3 H Files 2nd time 4/22/14 Fires L 7 days later. No court dates set Supposedly he's moving out?
