You betcha. Mostly why we fought. I felt I was the only one caring about bills and carrying the financial load.
You described close to our last 5-6 years of M. Working 7 days a week (mostly 12hr shifts) really wears on ya. I should've been smarter to know what was going on, all the warning signs were there, and in-laws kept reiterating it to W. I never invited my family into our struggles by being too proud to admit I couldn't handle it.
Going back a bit here....
If I were to ask you the difference between Love and Obligation....
What would your answer be ???
How would you define Love ???
How would you define Obligation ???
How have the differences interfered with your life ???
we now resume with normal CAS chatter on this station : )