W & I can handle respectably like you say. We are cordial and although not close as before, both still want what's best for kiddos during this time. My concern is this happening when I'm not around so we can address at time of incident. Not that she isn't sufficiently addressing don't get me wrong, but I guess I figure they need to see a unified co-parenting front rather than only her defending herself.
Overall I've had awesome days with kids, work, myself, and life in general. Just yesterday, I managed to get 2 youngest to baseball practice, 2 oldest to band warmup, pick up youngest 2 when done, and make it back to 2 oldest band concert. This sounds lame I know, but for me it means a lot to have the chance to be involved unlike before. Obviously W has made this kinda stuff look easy in the past so I smile at my small victories!
I am sure this is quite attractive.
I think I already told you to be the BEST DAD you can be.
That might mean lots more taxi driving and cheerleading.
And
Setting the example you want your kids to follow. What is that?
I hope it is NOT this
Originally Posted By: whytry
Remember my history that she knows me as a manipulator and will undermine her. That would be a touchy subject to bring up cuz she'll wonder WTH I'm doing and what my angle is. It'll be seen negatively for sure since I've been so honest now and she'll again assume my changes are fake and now is a good chance manipulate our children. Yes, that is my history and shame.
