Newbie - bf suddenly left after 9 years

[Italian]

Thank you, dear, I will be going through your links today! I have been lurking around for a bit, so I've read most of the resources. I'll just be GAL and keeping dark for the moment.

I suppose I'm not sure if I should be in the MLC forum, or if I should go to the regular 'affair' one - it's hard to understand...

Thank you!